Just up front – I probably won’t post like this very often at all. There was just a lot I wanted to respond to from another post, so I thought I’d do it here. My friend Ashley
posted a fiery post on her blog recently about educated women and the way that women of the
Church view education. It may be helpful to read her post and the comments from it first as I’m partly responding to her post.
I agree that some women get defensive because they don't want to feel demeaned. I think that many people defend their choices by pushing them on others to prevent feeling inferior, but I don’t want to get into that. I believe our society today (both in the Church and outside of it) is more supportive of women achieving educational goals (as it should be), but I also believe there will always be those who have chosen not to pursue the path to “higher education” who will defend their choice by justification and defensiveness. I also believe that a woman's education extends beyond one she obtains formally. I feel like both of my parents are highly educated and value education (as exemplified by 2 daughters with masters degrees, one who just finished her bachelors and one getting ready to head right into college), even though they both received only some formal college education. They are successful and have raised (in my opinion) a very successful family!
I know many extraordinary women, some who have advanced degrees and some who for whatever reason did not pursue higher education. I have learned a lot from (and I owe a lot to) all of these women. I don’t believe that any woman should be classified as educated or uneducated, especially in the Church. We all have circumstances in life that we have to react to and make sacrifices for. That being said I think that everyone (including women) should pursue as much education (formal and informal) as possible, and I think that that is one of the many great things about the Church – it urges us to do so.
Weber Stake Academy, 1905
I personally am one of those daughters of my parents with a master’s degree. I worked hard and really enjoyed school. I felt that it was important for me to continue pursuing my education and I was blessed to be able to do so. I can’t say that I would have made all of the same choices had I been presented with different opportunities and choices in life. We can each only make choices with what we are presented with, and that is and always will be different for each and everyone one of us. Like serving a mission, I firmly believe that what I learned on my mission will make me a better wife and mother. Does that mean that someone who didn’t serve a mission can’t be an incredible wife or mother, absolutely not!! It’s just what I needed! I believe that education can work in much the same way. How blessed we are to have a loving Heavenly Father to guide us down the path that is the best for us. My hope is that we all support each other on our respective paths, not with a judging eye but with a compassionate heart.
That being said I also think we need to urge young women today to seek education and as the scriptures admonish, “Seek learning, even by study and also by faith.” I could go on and on, but I don’t want to add any more to my disjointed ramblings. Thanks Ash for getting me thinking about this today. I hope your RS experiences improve in the future!